The world needed a better BDSM guide for beginners so Sir wrote up a really comprehensive article full of things I wish I knew when I was just starting out. It’s all really important information, but I think Sir’s outfit is the most important thing right now, hehe.
Here’s the article so you can get started doing the bdsm and creating your own Kitty Denied! http://www.discerningspecialist.com/articles/bdsm-101/92-bdsm-beginner-advanced-guide